…when we’re not intentionally seeking it out. So, there’s this guy I was introduced to a few months ago. He worked everyday.. ALL DAY (he’s a salesman) and I get it… No, actually I don’t fully understand it or get it, because he pursued me, and I assumed he wanted befriend me and feel me out. That’s how we met, he came to the house and magnificently sold us on what he was selling.
On Monday, March 31, renowned Matchmaker Paul Carrick Brunson in partnership with BET, will make its stop in Dallas for the “Let’s Stay Together” Love Tour! When Paul made the tour announcement on his facebook page — I seen the post like 3-hours later — I was excited, yet hesitant to RSVP for the flow dating event in Dallas. The reason that I was hesitant, is because I am not ready to date in Dallas just yet — my feelings are that I want to be a successful single, before I can be a successful dater (my personal qualm). As a result, I began to feel as if some fairy on my shoulder was whispering in my ear “go ahead Sabrina… RSVP… you never know what God has planned for you.” So I filled out the RSVP… I pressed SUBMIT… then nothing, so I tried it again… pressing SUBMIT… nothing. Oh well.
…fam! While most people would be flattered and tee hee’ing from a note like this. I mean… I walked in, got my program; asked where the sanctuary was from the person handing me my brochure, walked in that direction — determined that I did not want to go into the sanctuary in that direction, turned around and ..“hey did you use to work at bank of america?”, asked the unknown gentleman. “No… ahhh.. I’m new…“ I tried to explain, before I was cut off. “well..here’s a note for you to read, read it and we’ll talk later”, said the unknown gentleman. Or something to that nature.
I didn’t call him. But it makes me feel awkward, because I want to go back to the church. And while my impression of the congregation has not been marred by this stranger in a suit… it did gave me pause. Did he write this before he even saw me?? Did he really write this note THAT FAST?? Why not talk to me right then? What the fudge?!
What do you think??