40 Questions that Will Quiet Your Mind

Judge a person by their questions, rather than their answers … because asking the right questions is the answer.

In a recent ‘subscribers only’ email (subscribe here) I wrote: “Quiet your mind.  Don’t think outside the box of negativity.  Think like there is no box.”

To my surprise, over 200 people quoted this short line and responded with the same general question: “How?”

I’ve thought about it for a little while this morning, and I’ve decided that the simplest and most universal explanation I can give is this: Ask yourself better questions – questions that focus your thoughts and filter out all the nonsensical noise that’s been cluttering your mind.

The calming and healing power of a positive imagination is unleashed by constraining your focus.  Constraints drive creativity and force mindful thinking.  It may sound counterintuitive at first but, in a backwards way, you break out of the box by stepping into the right shackles.

And that’s exactly what the questions below can help you with – shackling the noise in your head by channeling your focus into meaningful thoughts.  Let these questions shift your perspective and guide you.




Sexy. Fun. Different. Dallas eXXXotica SEXpo in Dallas!!

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There’s a lot of SEXual stuff comin’ to town..it’s a SEXpo, and a bunch of non-sexual prudes in Dallas are up in arms, worried, concerned and you know what I say? …. GTFOH!! and GO AWAY!!

Sex is normal, sex should be fun, sex is healthy, sex makes you comfortable in your own skin, and it should be practiced safely!

Exxxotica, a three-day gathering that bills itself as the “largest adult event in the USA dedicated to love & sex,” kicks off in Dallas on Aug. 7. Ladies are free on FRIDAY! It offers seminars on sex, fetish performances, question-and-answer sessions about the commercial sex industry and meet-and-greets with dozens of porn stars. It’s The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex. This event was created for adults who are looking for something Sexy, something Fun, and something Different. source: Dallas NewseXXXoticaexpo.com

It was a little bit of a challenge finding an open minded g/f to go, but that just means I need to change my circle — I certainly would have gone by myself anyway…. but I did find someone to go with me. LADIES GET YOUR TIX!

More about eXXXotica!

Follow me on #Periscope at @ Sab_1908, because I will be Periscoping LIVE at the expo from my POV on Friday!

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Fuck It…

Instagram: JasFly

Instagram: JasFly


I received a few rejections from my job search… literally a few. One on Saturday via (auto-bullshit) and another today. But to balance it out… I had another job interview this morning, and I’m still awaiting to hear back from two others! Yaayy!

I’m back on the job search grind. Why? Well, my job with the previous employer did some major budget cuts and I was a part of that budget cut — ouch! Sucks. I Had my Pity Party. I AM NOT MY SITUATION. So, here I am again. Back with a vengeance! I still remain positive and optimistic about it all, because I truly believe that what you put out into the universe WILL come to fruition. Read the book The Secret by Rhonda Byrne or watch it on Netflix.

I will get that job. I will be happy in my career. Sometimes I need a little help — with accountability. I have one accountability partner. I’m trying to be that for my friend David, but he a lot dejected. And I understand. But you have to push forward. I have to push forward.

So…. Will you help me stay accountable? Thank you in advance 🙂

– Sab

p.s. how was your fourth of july weekend?

Find Volunteer Organizations that need you @ Voly In the Park – Dallas!

I will be attending Voly in the Park @ Klyde Warren Park!

…when you’re on the hunt for a job, again. 🙂 You find opportunities to take up your time — like volunteering! This is something that’s inherently me.

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